HONEY! DON’T EVER LET YOURSELF GET PLAYED!!..

 

HONEY! DON’T EVER LET YOURSELF GET PLAYED!!..

Relationships need not to be complex whatsoever. As a matter of fact, they just require an equal give and take for both parties, in order to make them blissful. However, trust some people to make relationships all about them, always demanding for something, yet never giving anything in return. In the end, you are left feeling utterly oppressed, suppressed, and depressed by love. Consequently, resentment will creep up on you, feeling you with killer vibes, enough to want to choke a negro to death. You may not believe it but this is how serial killers are created, by selfish individuals who are hell-bent on eating their cake and having it.

Like I mentioned earlier, complicated relationships are so because we at times allow our romantic interests to pull us into them, by use of manipulative tactics. Everytime I see a Facebook status that reads “It’s complicated”, I feel like weeping for my dear sisters. Again, a love connection is problematic, because unbeknownst to you, a player has pulled a game on you, in order to lead you down the desperate path of servitude for their sake, while not caring a bag of beans for you.

I speak strongly to my beautiful ladies when I say that the next time that heart-breaker puts you in some sort a wild goose chase for his love and affection, then take it as a queue to leave him out in the cold. I mean, pretend that he expired, entirely ignore his existence and move on to greater things, for this life is too short to be wasting it on vile womanizer. Besides, there are other bigger and better fish to fry, of which are awaiting your time and presence. Otherwise, how else will you find your noble steed, if you keep gallivanting with a hood rat?

Now, you already know that your part-time lover hates the boundaries you have erected, in order to deny him access into your space. He is also a smooth operator who is not willing to commit to you, neither does he plan on leaving you alone. Therefore, expect a disingenuous apology from him which sounds more like this, “Let us start all over. You know that we belong together, and you are the only one I want.” My rebuttal to this utter nonsense would be as follows, “Would you like us to start this emotional manipulation and abuse all over? And if we belong together, then why are we never together? And do you really want to be with me or am I one of your groupies? Do not fall for this trickster, for all he knows is how to play mind games with you. Infact, do not dignify his indecent proposal with an answer. Once again, keep ignoring him as if he were a ghost, move on up to your destined life, and leave that joker where he belongs, in the mud pond where you found him tricking with his fellow frogs, toads, rats, and snakes.

Nonetheless, I bet you know that it is going to take more than solid boundaries, accompanied with the silent treatment to take that leech off your back, for you know that his manhood is at stake, if he fails to take you down in the struggle for unrequited love. Remember that at this point, your part-time lover is becoming more vulnerable whenever you resist his charms, when you do not pay him any attention, and when your silence makes his ears to bleed, causing his insecurities to rear their ugly heads. Hence, this is a crucial phase, whereby that serial monogamist will make an emotional confession, a well-calculated power move, designed to pull your heart strings that are meant keep his position in your life. With crocodile tears in his eyes, this actor will drop a love dose on you like this, “I admit that I was not sure of my feelings for you before but now I am certain that I love you, and I am ready and willing to do anything for you.”

This is the part where you are required to use your logic and not your emotions. If his past actions do not match with his current words, then you already know what to do ladies. Besides, where was this show of love when you needed it? My dear sister, I insist that you leave that boy alone, if you wish to live a peaceful life. Kick that opportunist to the curb and be done with him for good this time round. However, if your kicks are not strong enough to wade off this philanderer, then hit that freak show  with this line, “The problem is not with you but with me, because I am too good for you, and I want to be with someone on my level.” Well, this line sounds very crass even for your modest self but do not worry at all, for even Casanovas have their feelings hurt once in a while. Therefore, do not feel sorry for taking the low road, in order to challenge a frenemy.

But incase the above punch line does not work on this prankster away from you, then you have my permission to claw that time-waster’s face with your freshly done manicures, for leading you on to an emotional rollercoaster. After botching his face, please feel free to release the dogs on him. All in all, let that liar go dear and watch your life change for the better.